1. Strive to develop loving relationships with your children
If you want your children to be caring and respectful, then treat them that way! Tend to their physical and emotional needs, provide a stable and loving family environment, show affection, talk about things that matter to them, and praise their efforts and accomplishments.
2. Be a strong moral role model
Children learn by observation, they will repeat the things they see other adults they respect do. Make sure that you are practicing honesty, fairness, and caring yourself! It’s important that when you catch yourself not being such a great role model in front of your kids, you acknowledge it and work on it!
3. Make caring for others a priority
Get that message across! Even though most parents say that their children being caring is a top priority, it’s not something that is often talked about at home. Holding children to high ethical expectations is a great way to prioritize caring because you teach them to do the right thing even when it’s tough, honor their commitments, and to stand up for what they believe in.
4. Provide opportunities to practice caring and gratitude
Studies show that people who regularly express gratitude toward others are more likely to be helpful, compassionate, generous, happy, and healthy. It’s important for children to practice caring for others and being grateful, so encourage the expression of their appreciation for the people who surround them and contribute to their lives. Also, it’s good to expect your children to routinely help around the house and become part of family life.
5. Broaden your child’s circle of concern
Most children care about their closest family and friends, the challenge is to help children empathize and care about someone outside that circle, like in a far away country or simply the new kid in class. Help your children be mindful about their decisions, and how they impact a community and encourage them to reflect on the perspectives and feelings of those who may be vulnerable and in need of a friend.
6. Promote ethical thinking and getting involved in the community
Children are naturally interested in ethical questions. Talking about them and getting involved when there’s a chance can help them learn and grow. You can help your child become an ethical thinker by listening to and helping him or her think through and solve his or her own ethical dilemmas. Encourage and provide opportunities for your child to support a cause he or she is interested in.
7. Develop emotional intelligence
Help your child develop self-control and learn how to manage his or her feelings. Encourage your child to talk about his or her feelings regularly, learning to identify them and cope with them in productive ways. If you notice your child is having trouble identifying a particular emotion, like frustration or sadness, name it and talk about why he or she is feeling that way.
These seven guidelines are something that all of us can follow and encourage at home. If you want to continue reading on the subject, and are looking for more specific tips about raising a caring, ethical child then we encourage you to read the article from its source on the Making Caring Common Project.