How to: Teach good manners at home

Who doesn’t want well-mannered kids? After all, your child’s behavior reflects on you, right? As much we would like our child to say “please” and “thank you” as soon as he or she starts talking, that’s probably not going to happen… but we can certainty start teaching toddlers how to be polite at a young age.

 

Teach your child how to be sensitive

At the root of good manners is respect for one another and before it comes sensitivity. So teaching your child how to be sensitive will be the beginning. A sensitive kid will naturally care for others, which will lead him to become a well-mannered person. Essentially a sensitive kid will be more prone to be more polite in a creative way and more heartfelt than anything he could have learned from a book of etiquette.

Be a good role model

Modeling behaviors is the best way to teach your child good manners. Essentiality, if you want a polite child you need to show him or her how to be polite through your own actions. Remember that your child learns through observation and imitation! So you need to be careful with your actions and words.

Here are some things you can try:

  • Modulate your tone when you speak to your baby and try using words like “please” and “thank you”. Even though your baby doesn’t (yet) understand the social graciousness of these words, he will understand that “please” is how you get what you want and “thank you” is how you end this collaboration. Remember that children will first understand the use of the word long before they understand its meaning.
  • Show your baby how to treat people, things, and pets. For example, if your baby tends to grab someone’s face or hair, try moving his hand and demonstrating a soft stroke. With time “gentleness” will translate into politeness, as he or she gets older.
  • Encourage your toddler to say “hello” and “goodbye”. At around two years old your baby will certainly will be able to say “hello” when arriving and “goodbye” when leaving. In fact, sometimes your little one might be eager to say “hello” and “goodbye”, but occasionally he or she will be too shy to speak. Don’t worry! You can try preparing him for the occasion, for example if you are going to visit grandma tell him “When we get to grandma’s, we are going to say “Hello, Grandma!”.

Remember that good manners are taught, so it will take time for your child to learn them and incorporate them in his day-to-day life, so be patient.

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