|Your toddler has been insisting on seeing the latest movie that just came out, and even though you know how much your kid loves those characters, you wonder if he is old enough to sit through an entire movie at the cinema. Maybe you’re wondering if attending a theatrical play or a live show will be simply too much and too soon. Our in-house experts share some insight about this decision.
Most child psychologists and parents agree that somewhere between 2 and 4 years of age is a good time to introduce your little one to the cinema or the theater, accorded that the film or show in question is age-appropriate for your child. Nonetheless, how cinema-ready a kid might be will ultimately depend on his personality at the time. So as always, it’s important to neither rush, nor pressure your kid into it just because you’ve heard of other 2-year-old that actually stays put in a seat for 120 minutes. It might hold true for some kids, but not for others.
To help you discern, here are some aspects to take into consideration:
• Your son’s capacity to sit still for longer than 30 minutes at a time and be happy about it.
How to make it a good experience for everyone (not only for you and your kid, but for the other people that share the space):
• Always choose child-friendly shows. There’s a better chance a matinee or a kid’s show will be a better experience than an opera or ballet-presentation. Your child and the rest of the audience will be far happier if you arrange for a sitter while you go ahead and watch that drama movie with your partner.
Every child is going to go through a learning curve about sharing social spaces with other people. Activities like going out to the movies or visit the playground are good and fun opportunities to help your kid master his impulses, delay gratification, and think about what other others might be feeling. Although it might appear like a small feat, conquering small outings like this can help your little one develop his socio-affective abilities!