There’s a reason why parents instinctively use music and rhythm to soothe a child. It is used as a way to express positive emotions and to engage the little one’s attention to interact with him. According to a 2016 study by the Brain and Creativity Institute at the University of Southern California, music is not only fun and beautiful, it also kindles the brain circuits in a way that other visual or physical activities don’t, especially regarding language acquisition. This might be because music brings both mind and body together.
Toddlers and preschoolers can benefit a lot from hearing repetitive songs because, by doing so, they can learn new words and use their memory skills. They frequently enjoy songs about familiar objects they already recognize and interact with, or with predictive rhythms that they can duplicate and move their bodies to.
Here are some musical activities with which you can encourage your son’s musical skills without necessarily enrolling him in violin classes:
- Invite your kid to invent short silly songs about one thing or one daily activity. Sing it when prompted by the object or situation to encourage attention and memorization. As you will have noticed from experience, our brains usually remember language better when it’s accompanied by music.
- Have your kid practice his fine motor skills and coordination by doing the finger motions of songs like Itsy Bitsy Spider.
- Play rhythm games. Have your son reproduce the rhythm of a song by tapping on objects he has at hand, like the floor, a box, different surfaces, etc.
- Have dance sessions. Play different types of music and invite your child to dance to its rhythm. You can model moving to the beat and also encourage describing the song with easy words, like loud, slow, happy, etc. This way, you are helping him perfect the control of his arms, legs, and torso.
- Help your child connect with his feelings by listening to some classical music.
- Explore playing some songs that you both enjoy, so you don’t get tired of kid’s music. We recommend The Sound of Music soundtrack, as it’s more complex music while, at the same time, it’s fairly repetitive, uses easily-explained words, and it’s fun to sing-along to.