Without having cruel intentions, most toddlers and pre-kindergarten children are simply too young to realize that pulling or squeezing an animal’s ears, hair, or just using them to explore and get funny reactions is actually not so funny for the cat, dog, bird, or bug in question. But this doesn’t mean that they can’t learn very early on about kindness towards all kind of creatures. Quite the contrary! Teaching your child how to coexist safely and lovingly with nature and animals can help him develop self-control, learn about boundaries, develop empathy, and know more about his own self and preferences. It also means that your toddler will be less likely to have bad experiences when interacting with an animal that can defend itself.
More so, it is known that spending time with animals and pets is good for both for the physical and psychological well-being of children, and is a great first step towards raising a nature-loving child.
Here are some ideas on how to help your son to be kind towards animals:
- Books can be a good tool to show your kid different kinds of animals, so that he gets comfortable around aquatic animals and winged, furry, or scaled ones too.
- Have a bird-feeder on your porch, window, or backyard.
- Show him how to kindly and safely touch a well-domesticated animal. You can start with modeling how to pet a cat or a dog using a stuffed animal. You can also play pretend and have you or your toddler be a puppy, and emphasize about gentleness and slow movements.
- Explain that animals have feelings and that they can be hurt by pulling and trampling, just as that behavior would hurt him.
- Discourage teasing an animal. Explain how it’s not nice to bother an animal that’s eating or napping, or to take away from them a loved toy. Animals dislike being treated rudely just as much as people do.
- Teach caution around unfamiliar animals. You can tell your son not to go near an animal (other than your house pet if you have one) without an adult around.
If you are looking for some extra tools to show your child how to treat animals, Brightly compiled a good list of books to help you with the task: http://www.readbrightly.com/8-books-that-show-kids-how-to-treat-animals/